They wish that you would soften [in your position], so they would soften [toward you].
who to chahtay hain kay tu zara dheela ho to yeh bhi dheelay par jayen.
वे चाहते हैं कि तुम ढीले पड़ो, इस कारण वे चिकनी-चुपड़ी बातें करते हैं